Tuesday, 14 March 2017

A man called Ove by Fredrik Backman

From Goodreads...

"In this bestselling and delightfully quirky debut novel from Sweden, a grumpy yet loveable man finds his solitary world turned on its head when a boisterous young family moves in next door.
Meet Ove. He’s a curmudgeon—the kind of man who points at people he dislikes as if they were burglars caught outside his bedroom window. He has staunch principles, strict routines, and a short fuse. People call him “the bitter neighbor from hell.” But must Ove be bitter just because he doesn’t walk around with a smile plastered to his face all the time?"


You get the idea. This is a grumpy and lonely guy. Only he doesn't realize it, because he's chosen this way of life. But life has a way of changing us too, and Ove's interactions with the neighbour who damages his property, the children, when he minds them for about ten minutes with their mother at hospital, and the pets and other dysfunctional neighbours all go some way to proving this true. 

The best advert is some quotes: 


“Ove had never been asked how he lived before he met her. But if anyone had asked him, he would have answered that he didn’t.”


“And the poser has a girlfriend. Ten years younger. The Blond Weed, Ove calls her. Tottering around the streets like an inebriated panda on heels as long as box wrenches, with clown paint all over her face and sunglasses so big that one can’t tell whether they’re a pair of glasses or some kind of helmet. She also has one of those handbag animals, running about off the leash and pissing on the paving stones outside Ove’s house. She thinks Ove doesn’t notice, but Ove always notices.” 


"'Once upon a time there was a little train,' reads Ove, with all the enthusiasm of someone reciting a tax statement."

Of course, Ove also tells his story. And it's sad. But it's well interspersed with the current one, that you don't even notice it, it just fills in the gaps. This is where some of the loveliest quotes are - about the love he used to share and the life he lived.


All in all, a lovely, unexpected heartwarming read. If you think you've read others like it, (The Unlikely Pilgrimage, The man who climbed out of the window, etc) you have, in that they're quirky, and make you smile. This is a little different. It's funnier - more laugh out loud than smile; it is more old-fashioned and sarcastic at the same time; it really hangs together and it has way more charm than the others I've read. For that, I'll remember it with affection.

I listened to this book on Audible. The narration was great - wry and not overdone.

4 stars.
ISBN: 9781444775815

Monday, 13 March 2017

Stern stuff

It's a good morning this morning.

I was reflecting this weekend. Considering all the things we face, daily. For me and my family, it's not been a great deal in the abundant life department - if it isn't illness, hospitalisation, deteriorating life threatening conditions, then it's the mental challenges of holding yourself and each other together through that; and when you think you may just make it, some disruptions - a burglary, a loss, a tree falling down. You get the picture?

Sometimes it's just one enormous thing, that changes everything - nothing is the same, it's all that much more difficult. The mountain is steeper and higher and rockier than yesterday; help feels thin on the ground, and you have less strength to face it than before.

In another thoughtful moment, I was wondering, really wondering how babies survive their first few months of existence? They're given to complete rookies, no experience, no manual, and in our case, no clue. Yet they don't seem to just survive, they thrive?

There's only one possible conclusion to these rambling thoughts - "We are made of stern stuff". Sterner than you would think. Our frail and fragile humanity, if we are asked to surrender it, turns out to have a back of steel, a spine of stone.

If you've come this far, and you're reading this today, you are resilient, and courageous, and you have more strength than you ever would have believed.

I'm going to celebrate that by having a run, and then a freshly brewed cappuccino and spend a few minutes in gratitude to my Creator that I'm still here. Then I'm going to have a good day.

Have you guessed our playlist for the exercise regime yet?

Come on, there's only one choice - TITANIUM, by David Guetta, featuring Sia.



I'm bulletproof nothing to lose
Fire away, fire away
Ricochet, you take your aim
Fire away, fire away
You shoot me down but I won't fall, I am titanium
You shoot me down but I won't fall
I am titanium

Let's do this. Bring. It. On.

Last month's motivation. Yes it's been a while.

Friday, 10 March 2017

Ten of the Best #83

Is it just me, or is this life slowly getting better? Enjoy the latest cartoon from Zapiro, while you're sipping that hot brew, snuggling under those warm covers and tell me you've got such a hard life.

Come on, laugh, it's not so hard.



I have to agree with one of my heroines, Annie Lennox, when she noted that Pres T (he who shall not be named) has caused a revival in the women's movement. Unintended, I'm sure, but hey, we'll take it. We aren't fussy.

It appears to me that during this week, International Women's Day (IWD),  where mass action was called for - by way of staying off work to prove what a difference women make - more and more women are finding their voices, and using them to good effect. So, it's no surprise that today, most of what I'll feature will be generated by the feminine gender.

Too bad I only discovered that I was meant to stay home on my way to my first meeting on the 8th March, 2017. This post made me feel better about my lack of solidarity with my fellow fairests...the little girl facing down the raging bull. Click the pic to read about State Street, who did it.



This article from The Guardian on Silencing, and the story's redemption over powerlessness gave me goosebumps.




Then the announcement of the Bailey's Longlist for fiction. All women, by design.



The ironic announcement that an all female crew landed an aircraft in a country that won't allow women to drive. How does this happen?


This news, today, not on IWD, that an all girl cast at UCT, discovered a gene that lead to a breakthrough in the medical profession - the number of cardiac related deaths could be drastically reduced. So proud.



We'll let Mark Heywood join the esteemed ranks today, since he wrote this excellent piece - "You knew because we told you". It's short, sharp and has loads of quotables and links to other interesting posts. One to keep in a safe place and read at the dinner table after a glass or two of wine. Click the Zapiro latest.



We'll also let Liberace's wonderful showmanship shine. He's glittery enough to be a girl. The middle of this clip is a little annoying, but the end is great, when he really gets those fingers flying.



The world lost a wonder this week - the Azure Window in Malta. Take a watch.



This little girl tells mom how to be divorced. And at the same time, has a message for all of us. Everyone. Loved it.



The last post - these adorable animals made my week.


Take it easy. Be kind. Make the world a better place. We all need each other to do just that.

In case you missed last week - here you go.

And some more tens.

Friday Books - The Keeper of Lost Things

Hello all you wonderful readers. It's Friday, and I'm so glad it is. The weekend. My favourite time of the week.

And my favourite time of the day - we get to do these link-ups.

BookBeginnings, hosted by Rose City Reader, and The Friday 56 - hosted by Freda’s Voice are the hosting sites for the Friday link ups, where we discover more books, and make friends. Both involve sharing excerpts from a current book - the beginning and - you guessed it - page 56.


Here's my Book Beginning...



Now that is a pretty cover. The prettiest I've seen for a while. And this book is touted as "The feel good novel of 2017". I'm sure that's helping it get read - who doesn't need a feel-good novel in 2017? Hands up? Right, moving on...

The Beginning, what do you think? No ticket on a train? One of my many nightmares. In a biscuit tin? Huh?

Here's my page 56...




Another pretty cover. No wonder there are two. They're not all that different, but which do you like? Mine looks like this one, and I loved that excerpt. I sometimes wonder, looking at my wedding photos, how I ever thought I could possibly have a tiny fricking clue what I was doing?

What do you think? Worth a read?

Have a happy weekend. I wish you lots of reading time.


Thursday, 9 March 2017

Hum if you don't know the words by Bianca Marais

Hum is the story of a Xhosa woman, Beauty, and a 9 year old girl, Robin. Set in South Africa in 1975-76, at the height of apartheid, both protagonists experience loss because of the political situation, and are coincidentally thrown together when Robin’s delinquent  but lovable aunt is failing her miserably.

It’s a good story. The tension and the situation in the country are well captured and vivid - from the rural mountains of the Transkei to Hillbrow, part of the inner city, and some memorable and rip-roaring scenes in a shebeen and an old car in Soweto. Bianca Marais has a way of drawing you  in, setting you up and then keeping you turning those pages for more. I loved the action, the unlikely friendships, the joy in spite of adversity, the creativity of humanity, and the dialogue. It all felt very authentic, without being condescending, and real, without being depressing. And, let's face it, it's not easy to write a novel set in South Africa in 1976.

The adventure is dialogued from two perspectives - Robin and Beauty. Beauty’s voice was strong and sure. Her challenges were immense, and I loved her. I kept trying to find Robin, and there were snatches, but on the whole, she didn't sound or feel like a 9 year old girl, even one who had been made to grow up way too soon.

This book is a quick and easy read, and you’ll enjoy it if you like reading South African fiction. I did.

Oh, and the cute cover is not as brilliant as the book. It's way better than it looks.

4 stars

ISBN: 9780399575068

You may also enjoy The Last Road Trip by Gareth Crocker or what about The Whip, by Karen Kondazian, if you like books that are a little different?

Wednesday, 8 March 2017

This was a man by Jeffrey Archer

The final instalment in The Clifton Chronicles

Here is a book. This was a man.



This was a series. Jeffrey Archer started the story of Harry Clifton in Only Time Will Tell. We thought three books. We were told five. A whopping seven later, we are done. And mixed feelings about it. 

Jeffrey Archer is master of the cliff hanger - every single book ended on a massive event/shock/revelation that had us all gasping for about a year until the next book was released. Now that they're all out there, you can binge read, if you haven't had the privilege. Lucky you.

Not only the book endings were like that - the chapters too ended with you thinking "just one more". You'll enjoy Harry, his mother Maisie, Emma, her father Hugo and brother Giles, the evil Virginia, and many friends and relatives along the way. There is plenty of action, dialogue and the ever changing point of view keeps the plot moving and us guessing.

It's a bit like a TV drama, really. Lots of intrigue, suspense, bad guys getting the upper hand, then good and noble triumphing eventually.  This last book in the series showcases Harry creating his magnum opus,  and we look back at his eventful life, the story of which started in 1920. Children and grandchildren provide more drama and poignant moments.

You'll laugh out loud, you may shed a tear or two, you'll be very entertained and the plot will enthral you. Not much will change you or make you think, though. If you've relished the other books in the series, you'll love this one, the tried and tested formula is applied well, and it's the last one.

So it's with a lot of joy, fondness and vivid memories that we wave goodbye to the Clifton Clan. Sad and glad it's over. 

ISBN: 9781250061638

Here's my review of number six - Cometh the Hour

Tuesday, 7 March 2017

Karolina's Twins by Ronald H Balson

Liam and Catherine are back. And this time together.

If you haven't read Ronald H Balson's historical fiction before, you should start with Once We Were Brothers, then read Finding Sophie, and then this one. Although the histories are all different, Liam and Catherine live in today's world, and their relationship builds through the series.

But let's talk about this one. Catherine Lockhart is an attorney and Liam is a private investigator, which is useful, when you are uncovering a mystery from the past.

This is a lovely mystery. Lena Woodward is an elderly woman, with a harrowing past in Nazi-occupied Poland. Just as she starts telling Catherine about it, her son Arthur brings a lawsuit to garner her estate, as she is unreliable. Can we believe Lena’s account of her past, including her best friend like a sister -  Karolina? 

I love the uncovering of an historical tale. And this author does it well. But heck, I'm bored with the "My name is Lena, I will pay you, Catherine Lockhart, renowned attorney, to listen to me for days while I recount it." This formula barely worked in the first novel, and it's even less forgivable now. It's just, well, not that creative.

At the very least, if I were Catherine, I would have said,  "Please write it all down - I can read faster than you can speak." But I'm not. And this was a good story nevertheless. I do like how there is conflict in the current plot, as well as in the history, how the pace quickened towards the end.  We listened to this on Audible, and the narration was great.

ISBN: 9781250098375

3 stars

You may also enjoy the other two books by the same author, Finding Sophie and Once We Were Brothers, but try The Nightingale by Kristin Hannah for a better told war saga.
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Monday, 6 March 2017

Together

It's Monday. And you're here again. Thinking why? Why am I even reading this? I don't want to get out of bed; don't want to run; don't even want to face the week.

I know. Me too.

But it's Monday. The week is beginning, with or without us. And while we can, we get up and do this. Together.

It's so much better when we're in the same pond. I don't know how people do the running / jogging / walking thing alone. It's too hard. Well, unless you take some music, or a pet, or maybe a story along.




I'm doing this today, because I have a friend, and I know she doesn't want to, and won't without me. 

One step at a time. Wake up. Make tea. Get dressed. You may as well, after all.

Here's your song. It's catchy. It's fun. It's true.

Enjoy your run today.



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Saturday, 4 March 2017

Ten of the Best #82



Wow it's been a great week. So great, in fact, that we are able to avoid all news of the Trumpet, Zuma, and just about any politics, and find ourselves some good entertainment. Sound like your kind of fun? Join me as I troll through your social media timelines for the ten best from my week.

This writing is just gorgeous. Too bad it's featured in 'the failing New York Times'. A publication that is seeing its subscribers grow more than in previous years. The topic - "When your greatest romance is friendship." Click the picture for the article.


The Oscar debacle is old news, but the full story was best explained by the host himself, in a humorous fashion. Click the clever book meme for the link.



Seth Godin explains our daily dilemma with seeing the daily war between the US presidential supporters and the media and the like. Power and reason and fish and bicycles. A nice short read.


I have to warn you about this next post. You need to be brave to read it. It's brutal. Not in an aggressive way, but in the way that truth-telling can inflict pain when told through the right lens. This is far and away the best thing I read this week. Another warning, it made me weep and it makes me sad. But it should. Robyn Wolfson Vorster on The Deadly Power of Patriarchy.



In happier news, it was World Book Day. Here's some inspiration.



#eattogether made me smile. And wish I could do this somewhere, sometime.





Alicia does Adele on the Jimmy Fallon show. It's a funny clip, but skip to 2.50 for the best Adele version of a well known song. And if you, like me, cannot believe this wasn't staged and rehearsed, it still doesn't make it (that much) less enjoyable.





When you're angry with someone and "may the fleas of a thousand camels..." is getting old and tired, and you can't remember what The Dowager said, here are some more modern burns for you. You're welcome.


Why we need to watch Beauty and the Beast. (As well as Hidden Figures, please don't forget).



The cutest animal albums of the year. Who thinks of this stuff?


And that's the Ten. Join me next week, same time same place.

If you missed last week, don't worry - you can catch up.


Friday, 3 March 2017

Friday Books - 1984

Hello Friday Bloggers and fellow bookworms.

After yet another busy week, I'm hoping that the weekend brings some peace and quiet.

But before that...

BookBeginnings, hosted by Rose City Reader, and The Friday 56 - hosted by Freda’s Voice are the hosting sites for the Friday link ups, where we discover more books, and make friends. Both involve sharing excerpts from a current book - the beginning and - you guessed it - page 56.



Here's my Book Beginning...




The recommendations to read/reread 1984 haven't stopped. And since this is one I missed in my school reading list, I thought it'd be fascinating. How is that iconic opening line? To think that it was first published in 1949!

Here's my page 56...




The covers I've shown were from my Audible version (the red Hitler-esque one) and the other was the one that popped up online whenever I looked. It's kind of creepy, with that blurry eye looking at you, don't you think? Which one do you prefer? This book has been published so much, there are plenty more covers to like/dislike.

What do you think? Worth a re-read?

Have a happy weekend, and here's hoping we both get a lot of reading done.
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